What gives women the right to make all the RULES for dealing with the opposite sex?
When a man says he wants a housewife and a woman who is passive, he gets attacked by feminists. Yet, women feel they have the right to tell men how they should behave in relationships with women. Why? If men can’t dictate female behavior why should women be able to dictate male behavior?
i dont want a house wife or anything like that ill pretty much take her how she is but i have to agree with you
what i think it is
is just that women have been getting they’re way for so long (because men have always been doin whatever it takes to get into they’re pants) that it got to the point where if a man doesnt pull out a chair before the woman sits down or opens the door for her then he’s a jerk which is bullshit
It’s all due to the law of supply and demand.
I agree with all of the above.
For the same reason, the person that has the pork chop, dictates the dog’s behavior…………….
Take a deep breathe,and calm down.Love is not a dictatorship.Broaden your perspective.
Nothing gives them the right. In fact, according to logical ethics they do not have it. Nevertheless it is accepted that they do. This is because of a couple of things:
1) Feminism has owned the gender discourse and definitely does not wish to share this position with men. Any man taking a stand against this sort of hypocrisy is met by wholly unfair resistance by the feminist gender establishment.
2) Benevolent sexism / chivalry / women first attitudes.. basically let women get away with bad behaviour including hypocrisy.
The short answer is.. because they have been allowed to get away with it. Just tell them your way or the highway regardless. We are still free to not marry into a raw deal (for now).. so unless the deal is going to be mutually beneficial in a way you can accept.. join the marriage strike and exercise your bargaining power.
1. Why do you care if you are being “attacked” by feminists? (Unless you are claiming that they physically assaulted you?) Their opinion should not make a hill of beans to you.
2. Women have what men want. As long as you want it, you will have to deal with us and our silly rules, in order to obtain it. Why do men want sex to the point that they are willing to debase and disrespect themselves to get it? I have no clue.
3. Men were dictating female behaviour when women wanted what men had (resources, mainly). Women can now secure their own resources, but men are still dependent upon a sexual partner for long term sexual satsifaction. As long as men put such a high value on having easy access to sex, you will be at a disadvantage. It sucks, but hey…it’s your choice.
Actually, its not “what” gives the woman the right to make all the rules, its “who”…. If you come across a woman like that, her behaviour has likely been nurtured and encouraged by a man who has put up with it. People (both men and women) can ‘feel they have the right to tell the other how to behave in a relationship’…but that doesn’t mean that you have to play along. When you recognize this attempt at controlling you, walk away. And if you choose to stay, you have no one to blame but yourself.
There are all kinds of people, with all kinds of irresponsible and selfish, self righteous behavior. Both men and women. You can’t change them. But you can choose not to associate with them.
Neither should dictate either behavior. When you enter into a relationship it’s usually because you share the same ideals and perspectives of your partner with minor differences to keep things interesting. If you want to find a woman who wants to be a housewife and is passive, go for it, there is nothing wrong with looking for a mate whom you are compatible with.
You are right…… women cannot make rules maybe 50/50 but in my country the rate is women 20 and the men 80. We enjoy the 20% and we know that we love respecting our man and enjoying his maturity and decisions over other things….
I want a 30-40 year old woman for nothing but sex…..
Honestly i think men would be bored with someone who never talked back, never initiated anything, etc.
But you have a point. Since I am not a feminist, I feel I can say that I don’t dictate how things should work, but I think it has to do with boundaries overall.
And there are some women who do allow their men to dictate behavior, good or bad.
There are plenty of women who would LOVE to be the passive housewife and give you plenty of babies and she’s not going to tell you how to behave, unless you treat her badly. That’s pretty general saying that women dictate how men should behave. We only ask to be treated with respect and kindness. Treat us like you’d treat your mother. Well accept for the sex thing, we hope that you DON’T have sex with your mother but that you WILL have sex with us,LOL!!!!!
Because ‘we’ have the goodies!
Two babies are in a full nursery, one boy, one girl. The baby boy jumps up, lifts his little blue smock, points to his peepee and says, “With one of these I can get one of those (pointing to the girl)!” Little girl stands up, lifts her little pink smock, pointing to her peepee and says, “With one of these I can get ALL of those (waves her hand across the nursery)!”
Bummer, ain’ it?